Actually you don’t need me to experience a light way to start living and loving freely. You only need you, a pen and a paper.

Let’s get visual
a simple drawing assignment
- Take a couple of deep breaths
- Draw a line for your life from a couple of months ago until now on the left half of the paper
- Draw yourself on the paper
Notice where you’ve drawn yourself, are you on the line? - Write some thoughts that you have a lot these days around you
- Write down how you feel at this point in your life
- Draw how you would like the line to continue
- Look at what you’ve drawn. Take a couple of deep breaths again.
- What do you feel now? Is there something you need? Is there something you would like to say to yourself? Something you need to do? Write it down.
- Put the paper away and do nothing for at least 10 minutes.

For the example I used an A4 paper, 90 grams, a colored magic pencil from Koh-I-Noor and a 0.2 black fineliner from Rotring. But really… if you’re not into artists supplies as much as I am, just take any pen and paper.
This assignment is one of many I can think of, based on where you are or what you need. And I have a lot more questions and some wisdom to go with it.